Cambridge Cuban Salsa Club
Men and Salsa
By DJ Sacha on Monday, April 26 2010, 20:15 - Reader contributions - Permalink
The following text has been contributed by Judith B. from Cambridge. So, guys, you thought salsa was for sissies, and you wanted to know what women think about dancing males... Just read further.
Men and Salsa
These few lines are addressed to you gentlemen and might change the way you think about salsa. I have taken the time to look for answers to that lingering interrogation, that same question which always comes back at the end of the night :
“Where were the salseros while so many pretty women were waiting by the side of the dance floor?”
Last month I bet with a mate about the outcome of a tennis match to try and start him up on salsa. For a month, if he was loosing he was bound to take salsa classes once a week, and if not I was bound to cook once a week. Even such a deal didn’t work… Yet my cooking is far from being bad!
There has always been more women than men at salsa parties, that is a fact. For some reason dancing is thought to be mostly a female thing, but don’t you believe it! One can be very male in the dance. In actual fact, there is nothing more macho than salsa since the man is leading, choosing the routines and deciding upon each step, and the woman is bound to follow. No way to escape a double turn even if her head already spins after the first one!
You will tell me that salsa is for sissies. Quite the opposite, it is a real sport: if you fully commit to it, it is a very good exercise, as tiresome as jogging in the park. Watch the six packs of long-term dancers, and you will understand what I mean. Plus, it comes with some added benefit: you will be able to meet scores of pretty ladies in a relaxed environment, and to dance tight and more if there's chemistry… Oooops, was I just rambling? Well, with a little bit of luck and boldness, between two dilequenos, a setenta complicado and a sacala, you might actually be able to whisper an invitation and find a partner to come with to the next salsa congress...
Thus why spending the night in front of a screen watching 11 blokes running after a ball, while you could be dancing all night long to hot and devilish rhythms, moving your body like a stud, meeting people and inviting pretty damsels who aren’t waiting for anything else… If after this you are still not convinced, come try a lesson with Leandro. Easyyyyy! Just dress casual, bring a pair of comfy shoes and join the rueda to the bewitching sounds of the Cuban salsa. You won’t regret it, guaranteed!
- Judith B. (a.k.a. Manzanita) from Cambridge
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Comments
You've right Judith. We need to be more confident,less shy and just enjoy the moment!
Sometime I didn't want to dance more than 2 times because I look at the best "salseros", and I'm feeling a bit weak !!
Judith - It is an age old problem, and it doesn't matter where you go, the women outnumber the men. I recently went up to that salsa mecca "Barnsley" and the men were outnumbered by at least 3 to 1. I had to hide outside to get a rest and cool down!
I fear that the only men that will read this are already converts and that the men that need to read this probably will not. Perhaps the lure of pretty ladies is not enough [for some] to overcome the "sissie" image. Some places have experimented with other incentives, such as men get in for free (for a limited period), or bring a partner for half price; introduce a newbie and both get in for free. Not sure if any really work. Do you think more advertising (in addition to the web) would help?
PS 7 years on and i am still waiting for that six pack!
Some of my best dances have been with women leads. As nice as it is to have a good male lead, many of whom I suppose prefer a 'pretty lady' waiting on the aisles to be chosen for a dance, salsa is fun and not reliant on men, nor reliant on being pretty for a dance:) Please excuse my slight tug at the gendered stereotyping, I know that the article is an encouragement for more men to dance, and yes it would be good to see them, but lets be empowered by the music, not made into wall flowers. More men or more women to learn to lead if the age old problem is not to be cured!